7 signs something needs to change
Sometimes admitting we need to make a change is the biggest hurdle we have to overcome
"I should do that because…."
"You're should-ing all over yourself!"
The first time I heard this 🤣🤔💡🙄
I can't do that, its so selfish!
I can't do that, so-and-so won't be happy, I'm just being selfish
I can't stop doing that, it will mean so-and-so have to [change their behaviour], so that's really selfish
I can't do that, people will think I'm really selfish
Does the idea of trying something new fill you with fear?
Do you prefer to stick with what you know - even if you don't really like it?
You may be stuck in your comfort zone….
We had a tortoise when I was younger (a long story for another time) but the first time we saw him on his back in the garden, we panicked that he was stuck!
Many of us feel like my old tortoise George on the odd occasion, but sometimes we can get really stuck in feeling stuck!
Some of the things you might notice about yourself if you're feeling stuck
Do you find it hard to make decisions, and end up going round and round in circles, sometimes paralysed into doing nothing??
Are you awake in the small hours thinking "but what if…., what if…., what if….."
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